I Love Them. I Just Don’t Like Them.

Family relationships can hold two truths at once: we can deeply love someone while struggling to actually like them. Dr. Rana explores the guilt, grief, resentment and boundaries that can come with accepting that uncomfortable reality.

As a family psychologist, I have sat across from hundreds of people — young and old — who are reflecting on their past and on the family relationships that shaped them. Sometimes the childhood being examined is decades behind them, but the emotions are still raw. Sometimes the person in front of me is younger, a teenager still living that childhood, or just making their way out of it — at least chronologically.

And at the centre of nearly every story, tangled up in a complicated mix of feelings, are one — sometimes two  people.

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